Writing

I write about the things we're often taught to move past too quickly.

The stories we've inherited. Emotions. Neurodivergence. Embodiment. Faith and doubt. Grief. Parenting. Burnout. Relationships. The body. The lives we're slowly learning to build instead.

Sometimes the writing is an essay.

Sometimes it's a poem.

Sometimes it's simply a few words that help something inside you come into focus.

Come read for a while.


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It takes a lot of energy to hide
The shocking ease after naming my autism -- I’m pulling a fascinating thread right now that I want to tell you about.Since my autism diagnosis, I’ve been sketching out how I would tell you. I have pages and pages of notes. Articles and links. Memes and reflections. My entire structure of self was deconstructing for the past year so yes, it made sense that my brain ran around collecting stories and explanations.
My soul longs for connection & my body longs for isolation
The beauty and frustration of being autistic -- Being autistic is wild. Dr. Kristin Neff said it beautifully in a recent podcast episode: “My soul longs for connection and my body longs for isolation.”YES.
It shouldn’t have happened. But it did.
It’s oddly soothing to hear this.
The shape I no longer fit
A little poem about choosing to heal

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Body, Nervous System & Capacity
Listening to the body without turning it into another project to manage.

Grief & Becoming
Living with what has changed, what remains, and what love does with both.

Neurodivergence & Unmasking
Making sense of yourself after a lifetime of trying to fit.

Faith, Spirituality & Meaning
Making room for mystery, doubt, anger, wonder, and whatever remains.

Relationships & Family
The complicated work of being yourself while staying connected to others.

Poetry & Everything Else
For when prose isn't quite enough.

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The Thread Archives

Before The Gentle Way, there was The Thread.

For years, I wrote about untangling the stories that make us who we are so we can show up to our lives with spacious presence, brave honesty, radical love, and wild curiosity.

Those archives are still here.